Mary Patricia

Kramer

Mary Patricia Kramer (née Altenbernd), of Edmundson, Missouri, was born on August 24, 1931, in St. Louis. After 95 wonderful years filled with family, faith, friendship, and adventure, Pat peacefully passed away in the early morning hours of Monday, November 9, 2026, and is now resting in the loving arms of her Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.

Pat was preceded in death by her beloved parents, Bernadine and Harry Altenbernd; her loving husband of 62 years, John Henry “Jack” Kramer, Jr.; and her eldest son, Stephen Kramer (Karen). She leaves behind a family who loved her dearly and will forever cherish her memory. She was the beloved mother of Joseph Kramer (Donna), Laura Stewart (Mike), and Jeffrey Kramer (Susan); proud and loving grandmother of Ben Stewart (Anna), Allyson Stonum (Scott), Daniel Stewart, and Jessica Kramer; and adoring great-grandmother of James Stewart, Julia Stewart, Jack Stonum, Beau Stonum, and Hugh Stonum.

She was also a dear sister-in-law, aunt, great-aunt, cousin, and treasured friend. She was preceded in death by her dear siblings, Harriet “Abby” Sahr, Henry “Tim” Altenbernd, and David Altenbernd.

Above all, Pat was a loving, caring, and kindhearted person whose greatest joy was her family. She was a devoted mother, a doting grandmother, and an adoring great-grandmother who never missed an opportunity to show her love. Her family was her greatest treasure, and she took tremendous pride in each generation. The memories she created, the love she shared, and the special place she held in each of their lives will be cherished always.

Pat retired after more than 25 years with National General Insurance (now Allstate) in Earth City, Missouri, where she served as Executive Administrative Assistant to the company's General Counsel. She was dedicated to her work and the many friendships she made along the way.

Her Catholic faith was an important part of her life. Over the years, she worshipped at several parish churches, most recently at All Souls Catholic Church in Overland, Missouri. Her faith provided comfort and strength throughout her life and remains a beautiful part of the legacy she leaves behind.

Pat also knew how to enjoy life. An accomplished ballroom dancer, she and her husband Jack, were always the life of the party at every wedding reception and holiday party they attended. Together, they brought laughter, fun, and plenty of dancing to every celebration. Her love of travel and her adventurous spirit took her to many places including most every state in the U.S., Europe and China.

In her 95 years, Pat witnessed so much, experienced so much, and was always happy to share. Those who knew her will remember her not only for the life she lived, but for the joy, laughter, and love she brought to theirs.

While family and friends grieve her passing, they do so with grateful hearts for the privilege of having shared in her long and fruitful life. “Ninety-five years” is a remarkable gift, and Pat filled those years with memories and meaningful relationships. She will be deeply missed and lovingly remembered.

In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests that donations be made in Pat's memory to the American Heart Association (https://www.heart.org) or the Ritenour Pride & Promise Foundation (https://www.ritenourschools.org/community/pride-promise-foundation), reflecting her enduring spirit and the love she shared with all.

The family extends heartfelt gratitude to the compassionate caregivers at The Abbey in O'Fallon, Missouri, and Three Oaks Hospice – St. Louis. Their support and kindness were a source of comfort during Pat’s final journey.

Funeral Arrangements

A funeral mass will take place at Our Lady of Presentation Catholic Church, 8860 Tudor Avenue, Overland, MO 63114 on Monday, November 16 – mass will begin at 11:00am, lunch will be served in the church hall immediately following the service.